What is “Wishing well” and how is it helpful day to day?

Wishing well is a way to instantly calm ourselves, and offer love and caring to others.

It is in our very building blocks to be helpful. When others are upset we want to make it better, but do not often have the tools to do so!

“Wishing Well” is a way for children to help others when there is no tangible way to offer their help.

To wish well:

1) Put your hands over your heart.

2) Take a deep breath in.

3) Pause and picture something precious in your mind

4) breathe out while opening your arms and sending those precious, loving thoughts out to the person you are wishing well.

The Wish Well Board is used for the class-wide Wish Well Ritual that you can also utilize at home. When a child is absent, moving to another school, has arrived late or is in need of support for other reasons, place the child’s picture or name in the heart inside your Wish Well Board. At home, you can “wish well” those whom you miss, who are sick, who are experiencing big events (tests, new jobs, tryouts, a new home, a new school, or a new baby arriving), and anyone who seems to be struggling.

During your Wish Well Ritual a song can be key to making connections with the other people in your group and cementing the good feelings into the wish! Conscious Discipline has songs like “We Wish You Well” on Songs for I Love You Rituals Volume 2 or “I Wish You Well” on It Starts in the Heart (in English and Spanish).

You may purchase a Wish Well Board, or create your own using a magnetic cookie sheet and magnets or foam board and velcro.

How to Use Wish Well in the Elementary Age Bedroom

Life can be complicated, families and friends can be separated by vast distances, and personal struggles abound. Yet, there is always something we can do to demonstrate our loving concern and connect with those we care for: We can wish them well. The Wish Well Board provides a visual way to aid children in wishing others well and helps adults remember to take a quiet moment, too.

Families can use the Wish Well Board from Conscious Discipline or a homemade one. Wishing well generates an internal cascade of feel-good neurochemicals and hormones that boost positive feelings.

Your Wish Well Ritual is easily incorporated into your morning routine as part of a Brain Smart way to start the day, but some children will also benefit from a personal Wish Well Board or routine in their rooms. This enables them to “visit” with the photos of loved ones and offer loving wish wells privately as well as in a group setting with the whole family.

Teaching how to “Wish Well”

From the bottoms of our hearts, we wish you well! Have a wonderful day!

Your CG Family